Trust Vs Mistrust

It is so hard to give the trust to a person who have broken it before. Even though, you say that you love him, if you keep on doubting, he wouldn’t believe that it’s love. You should learn to give people a second chance, and let them do what they want to do. ‘Cause if they really love you, they won’t break you heart the second time around. Trust is an important foundation of a relationship meaning to stay permanent. You should open your heart and mind and remove the negativity and forget the trauma. Learn to self-heal because only you, yourself know what hurts deep inside you.



People do get tired. Even if what she’s doing is what she always wanted. Especially when it is not well appreciated. A way to a girl’s heart is through simple things which, guys don’t notice, but girl’s appreciates so much. Here are some of the simple things: Opening the door for her; Pulling the chair for her; helping her with her loads; walking her home; message greetings; “thank you’s”; and respect. Why? Because a girl loves someone who makes her feel like a girl– like a flower so fragile, delicate and beautiful. Try it some time, boys, and you will own the world 🙂

Trust does it all.

I was having a good Sunday a while ago when my friend whom I treated like a sister texted me and confronted me of having an affair with his boyfriend and a close friend of mine too. I was shock and now, still I am. I thought of myself before when I was like that too. I just smiled and said to myself that trust really is a big thing. When you have to much, you could be hurt so bad. When you have a little, relationships with everybody fails. Don’t worry, she said sorry and we’re okay again.

But then, you just have to trust people, you’ll never know what they’re up to and if they’re irrational human enough, they would keep your trust and will never break it.

Never ever pattern your love story to a song’s lyrics or movie’s story line.

Well, the title itself says it all. You can never trust a song or a movie. It’s just a mere inspiration and a reminder for us all that it’s only an imagination, a FICTION. Always remember that the script writers and composers are only writing those HOPEFUL (how i wish) things for them to get money because it’s their work. You should depend on your own. Your decision will determine what will be your story. Never act as if you are an artist on a movie. There will never be someone who will play a background song there as you cry. There will never be someone who’ll help you in an instant like magic. There is only one who can help you. It’s you yourself. So wake up. Reality is always different from a dream. Get over it.

Blood is thicker than water.

Having a boyfriend who has a family that doesn’t like you is a very knotty state of affairs. Even if the boy loves you so much and stand up for you toughly, if the family really hates you, you yourself will give up for the sake of the boy’s fate. It’s really hard to convince a family with a different set of principles. And can be a very excruciating experience for the lovers. Such family can be very vile on the girls’ part but what can one do? Sooner, if your fate changes its luck, you will be a part of their family. So, good luck.

A girl’s trust is hard to fabricate but easy to annihilate.

Trust can be incorporated to loyalty but can never influence the quantity of love. Once a girl’s trust has been built, her fidelity to a boy will never be wrecked. She will completely devote herself to the boy she loves and will do almost anything for him to be happy. And once it was destroyed, for the sake of love, she will forgive; but will never forget and it will be difficult for the boy to bring the same, old, sweet, and trustful love of the girl.